Archive for January, 2009
Being Watched By An Ex
Posted by: | CommentsWe’ve been down this road before. First it was holding a door for one, and last night it was a text message from another one; my longest relationship to date. Wow, that sounds strange, but a relationship is the furthest thing from my mind these days. And after awhile, you’re toasted from being burned so often. OK, back to the text message, let’s not go down the analyzing relationship mode. I’m bored with it.
I bailed on the Nightmares on Wax show last night. I know, I was bummed myself, but after I walked out of the office yesterday, I was completely drained. I walked by my two good friends cubes after they were let go, and it’s just so surreal. I miss you guys already. So, I still wanted to get out and let some of this stress go, so Susan and I decided to visit our old stomping grounds: Ohio City. Home to this Ex we’re speaking of. We stopped at the Wine Bar and then the Flying Fig for a night cap. After we left the Fig, we were trudging our way through the snow to get back to the car, which was parked near his apartment building. My phone goes off, and it reads: careful there, don’t fall. I was all..huh..where are you? He replies, watchin’ two people trying to clear a snow bank. He’s always been a smart ass, which is what drew me to him, but he’s known for his text & run’s. And given the mood I was in, I had some responses myself. Too much. I can’t wait to get to another location where I can start over again with my Ex portfolio!! Good times.
So, today I’m having coffee with my Pilates teacher. I need a little push. And hey, revisit Susan’s post yesterday and spend some time thinking about her closing statement. I’m going to reply myself – but I’d rather think about it a little more. I’m going to start bringing in contributors to The Hub, so if you have some ideas you’d like to contribute, I’m all ears…
Have a relaxing weekend every one…
Quote of the Week Nomination: Guest Contributor
Posted by: | CommentsHello inc’sters – a bit of a switch-up from the standard Friday Quote of the Week. We have a new guest contributor on The Hub! Susan, thank you for this post today – beautiful. It brought tears to my eyes….looking forward to more magicfish contributions.Â
So I’ve been reflecting about the week that is drawing to a close and how challenging it has been in many ways for the ones that I feel closest to…..jobs lost or hanging in a space of uncertainty, sweet families & their homes facing foreclosure and of course, the endless challenge offered by Mother Nature herself. All of this gets me to thinking about the qualities that reside deep within us that keep us moving forward….forward through the fear, the not-knowing what will come next, and, yes, even through the mountains of snow. Courage is one of those qualities that move us in times like these…..here is her story:
….Courage looks you straight in the eye. She is not impressed with powertrippers, and she knows first aid. Courage is not afraid to weep, and she is not afraid to pray, even when she is not sure who she is praying to. When Courage walks, it is clear that she has made the journey from loneliness to solitude. The people who told me she is stern were not lying. They just forgot to mention that she is kind.” Â - Ruth Gendler
What quality do you possess that moves you forward when the tests seem endless and frighteningly difficult…..tell me that story. We’ll post the best in our usual Monday “Quote of the Week” winner post
Sad Day
Posted by: | CommentsIt’s going to be a tough one here at the office today. One of my good friends was let go yesterday and another one is being let go today. I also just got out of my Editor-In-Chief’s office, and they had to let a Technical Editor go, which leaves them with two Editors running 4 magazines. I also hear there are 9 others on their list today. I just feel so bad for them. You put so much into your work, and then your told it’s not needed anymore. And the anxiety of– what the hell am I going to do? Will I find a new job? My family? My livelihood?
I also had my conference call yesterday about my department, and their so called “strategic redevelopment” has been confirmed: “not enough spots for everyone – half will be reassigned to new properties and the other half will leave the organization.” In closing I hear; “the best thing you can do is put all of your focus into your work.” It took everything in my power to not reply: that’s what we’ve been doing!! I was so motivated after that call! NOT. The best part, nothing will be confirmed until Feb. 15.
So, please send lots of positive energy to the downtown Cleveland area. We’ll need it.
Baby in dryer..
Posted by: | CommentsMy niece, I just love her to death. I miss my her and my nephews. Every time I see them, I just melt — there’s nothing sweeter than the innocence of a child. She’s going to break some serious hearts – I can tell already.

